So from the Sanders home to your home- have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Stay tuned for more mis-adventures and random musings in 2011!
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas!!
So from the Sanders home to your home- have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Stay tuned for more mis-adventures and random musings in 2011!
November 15, 2010
My Brother, My Hero
I've never really considered anyone my hero. I admire lots of people and aspire to emulate them in various ways. However, I'd never classify any of them as a hero. Then sometimes various life situations really show you what people are made of and a hero is born.
As a member of the SC Army National Guard since 2001, my brother Brian has readily given a weekend every month and 2 weeks a year to perform his job as a citizen soldier. Often times, he was giving much more time than that for various trainings. In 2004 just as Brian was announcing his engagement and the impending birth of his first child, he also announced that his unit was being deployed. He was off to Kuwait for a year. While he was away, his son (my nephew) Keith was born. Brian came home when Keith was 9 months old and went back to his job. He continued to stay in the Guard because he truly loves it.
Fast forward to 2009. Brian informs us that his unit is again being deployed in January 2010. Destination- Afghanistan. This pill was hard to swallow. His time in Kuwait was fairly uneventful- always a good thing in a war zone. Afghanistan is a different setting entirely. All I could think was that my brother would be hunting Bin Laden in the mountains and trying to avoid suicide bombers. Not something one wants to ponder as they hug their loved one goodbye. Oh, did I mention that his second child was going to be born while he was halfway around the world? Grace Kay arrived in March.
Fast forward to November 12, 2010. I woke up at 4:40AM to make sure I was at the Columbia Airport at 5:30 to welcome my brother home. I'm not a morning person at all! But I jumped out of bed when the alarm went off! I couldn't wait to see Brian with my own 2 eyes and give him a big hug. You see, he was coming home. This tour was officially over. The mission had been carried out.
Why do I consider Brian my hero? He willingly chose to serve his country both at home and abroad. He could have gotten out after his first deployment, but he felt a calling. He considers himself nothing more than an American doing his job. Yet he has sacrificed personal experiences (like being present at the births of his 2 children) to do his job. He put himself in harm's way so that I can sit in my home and type whatever I want on my blog and not worry about being arrested. He carries a gun in dessert heat and looks out for potential bombers so that we can complain about our elected officials and have an opportunity to vote them out of office.
Nothing I ever do will be that awe inspiring. I'll never wear a uniform and put myself in between a bullet and my battle buddy. I'll never have to respond to enemy fire at the end of a seemingly peaceful day. But people like my brother and the men & women in his unit make those decisions every day, and they ask for nothing in return. Because of these men and women, we live in freedom. Now that is what I call the actions of a hero. You can bet that this Thanksgiving and Christmas season will be celebrated like never before in our family. Our soldier came home. For that, I will be forever grateful!
October 30, 2010
Pugfest + Fry's = Happiness
As I write this, I'm relaxing after a very eventful day at Pugfest 2010 and watching a very exhausted Pug catch some ZZZZ's. For those who don't know, Pugfest is an annual fundraising event for Southeast Pug Rescue & Adoption, Inc. (SEPRA). They are a non-profit organization that rescues and fosters abandoned and surrendered Pugs while trying to place them in their forever homes. For more information, check them out at http://www.rescuepug.com
Today was our 4th Pugfest trip. I can honestly say that this was the best one by far. To hit the highlights: We spent the day with awesome dogs & their owners. I got some awesome items in the silent auction, and Sophie won 3rd place in the Homemade Costume category dressed as a nun. Pictures will be included in a future blog post. She was adorable (and yes- I am totally biased!). People loved her and kept taking her picture. She was a fan favorite. Now she is completely worn out and enjoying sleeping in the hotel bed. Not sure why, but Sophie loves hotel beds. Maybe it's because it's bigger than our bed at home and she can have more room. Maybe its because there is no kitty to share the space with. Who knows. All I do know is that she is sleeping like a champ.
In addition to Pugfest fun, this trip also marks our annual shopping excursion to Fry's Electronics. If you are not familiar with Fry's (which I wasn't until I began attending Pugfest 4 years ago), it is like a gigantic Best Buy. Jamie loves all the computers and electronic gadgets. I love the amazing selection of DVDs at wonderfully low prices. (This is not a paid advertisement for Fry's Electronics. Although they should pay me to spread the word about their greatness.) If you've ever been to our house, you understand why I appreciate a bargain on DVDs. We have almost 300 DVDs in our collection plus many of our favorite TV shows on DVD. Our collection continues to grow (thanks to me and the great deals I find) so we are never without entertainment in our house. Not to be completely selfish, most of what I purchased today was gifts for other people. I can't turn down a bargain and Christmas is just around the corner.
I'll close this post now and try to catch some ZZZZs with Sophie. She has the right idea.
Pug out!
Today was our 4th Pugfest trip. I can honestly say that this was the best one by far. To hit the highlights: We spent the day with awesome dogs & their owners. I got some awesome items in the silent auction, and Sophie won 3rd place in the Homemade Costume category dressed as a nun. Pictures will be included in a future blog post. She was adorable (and yes- I am totally biased!). People loved her and kept taking her picture. She was a fan favorite. Now she is completely worn out and enjoying sleeping in the hotel bed. Not sure why, but Sophie loves hotel beds. Maybe it's because it's bigger than our bed at home and she can have more room. Maybe its because there is no kitty to share the space with. Who knows. All I do know is that she is sleeping like a champ.
In addition to Pugfest fun, this trip also marks our annual shopping excursion to Fry's Electronics. If you are not familiar with Fry's (which I wasn't until I began attending Pugfest 4 years ago), it is like a gigantic Best Buy. Jamie loves all the computers and electronic gadgets. I love the amazing selection of DVDs at wonderfully low prices. (This is not a paid advertisement for Fry's Electronics. Although they should pay me to spread the word about their greatness.) If you've ever been to our house, you understand why I appreciate a bargain on DVDs. We have almost 300 DVDs in our collection plus many of our favorite TV shows on DVD. Our collection continues to grow (thanks to me and the great deals I find) so we are never without entertainment in our house. Not to be completely selfish, most of what I purchased today was gifts for other people. I can't turn down a bargain and Christmas is just around the corner.
I'll close this post now and try to catch some ZZZZs with Sophie. She has the right idea.
Pug out!
October 29, 2010
Happiness is a Hotel Full of Pugs!
Today we made the annual trek to Atlanta for Pugfest 2010. Pugfest is an awesome fundraiser for the Southeastern Pug Rescue. This is our 4th year attending. You know you've made it to the right hotel when you see Pugs everywhere. Sophie is among friends here and that is what makes the trip so fun.
Pug owners are cool people. We are obsessed with our babies and do anything and everything to make them happy. It probably goes back to Pugs being bred to serve as lap dogs for the Chinese royal family way back in the day. They entered the world as part of royalty and demand to still be treated as such. I can't blame them. I'd have the same demands if I was from a line of royalty.
So tomorrow we'll head to the fairgrounds and see what fun is in store for Sophie this year. Her costume is adorable and we are hoping for a prize this year. Last year, she got Honorable Mention for her Lucy van Pelt outfit so we are hoping for a repeat performance.
Stay tuned for more Pugfest news! Pugs and Kisses!
Pug owners are cool people. We are obsessed with our babies and do anything and everything to make them happy. It probably goes back to Pugs being bred to serve as lap dogs for the Chinese royal family way back in the day. They entered the world as part of royalty and demand to still be treated as such. I can't blame them. I'd have the same demands if I was from a line of royalty.
So tomorrow we'll head to the fairgrounds and see what fun is in store for Sophie this year. Her costume is adorable and we are hoping for a prize this year. Last year, she got Honorable Mention for her Lucy van Pelt outfit so we are hoping for a repeat performance.
Stay tuned for more Pugfest news! Pugs and Kisses!
October 20, 2010
Insomnia sucks, but it gave me a reaosn to update this.
It's a little after 5 AM and I'm wide awake. Been that way since 1:30. I don't usually suffer from insomnia, but tonight (aka this morning) I do. So what better to do than update my blog which I've neglected.
So.... where to begin? I'm still going strong with Weight Watchers. Lost 13 pounds which has made me very happy. I'm almost halfway to my weight loss goal!! I've had some frustrating weeks but my leader keeps reminding us that we need to celebrate the small gains (or losses in WW lingo) of -0.3. We can't lose whole pound increments every time we weigh in and we didn't gain it overnight. I keep plugging along and know that I'll get to my goal- even if it takes a while.
I've always said that I wouldn't discuss my work on this blog b/c I like to keep my social network life & professional life separate. All I will say is that I'm starting to get the swing of the new job but it still challenges me every day. Lots of long hours the last couple of months have been one reason I haven't blogged a lot. Too much stuff on the brain that I can't blog about or nothing fun & frivolous on the brain to blog about. It's a catch-22.
I have learned an important lesson recently. Maybe not so much a lesson as truth that I had hoped would be untrue. Adults can be very childish. Really- I have to ask myself if someone is 50 or 5 on a more regular basis than I prefer. Seriously people- you are adults. ACT like it! No, don't act- actually BE an adult! The world would be a much better place if that would happen.
I'm still alive and well (although I'd prefer to be sleeping and having wonderfully pleasant dreams instead of typing this right now). Hoping the inspiration will come more frequently than once a month so I can maintain this thing and keep my loyal followers (Are you still there?) engaged and enchanted.
Peace out!
So.... where to begin? I'm still going strong with Weight Watchers. Lost 13 pounds which has made me very happy. I'm almost halfway to my weight loss goal!! I've had some frustrating weeks but my leader keeps reminding us that we need to celebrate the small gains (or losses in WW lingo) of -0.3. We can't lose whole pound increments every time we weigh in and we didn't gain it overnight. I keep plugging along and know that I'll get to my goal- even if it takes a while.
I've always said that I wouldn't discuss my work on this blog b/c I like to keep my social network life & professional life separate. All I will say is that I'm starting to get the swing of the new job but it still challenges me every day. Lots of long hours the last couple of months have been one reason I haven't blogged a lot. Too much stuff on the brain that I can't blog about or nothing fun & frivolous on the brain to blog about. It's a catch-22.
I have learned an important lesson recently. Maybe not so much a lesson as truth that I had hoped would be untrue. Adults can be very childish. Really- I have to ask myself if someone is 50 or 5 on a more regular basis than I prefer. Seriously people- you are adults. ACT like it! No, don't act- actually BE an adult! The world would be a much better place if that would happen.
I'm still alive and well (although I'd prefer to be sleeping and having wonderfully pleasant dreams instead of typing this right now). Hoping the inspiration will come more frequently than once a month so I can maintain this thing and keep my loyal followers (Are you still there?) engaged and enchanted.
Peace out!
September 28, 2010
September Synopsis
I'm still alive... just been crazy busy with work and stuff. My September has been hectic and chaotic. However, I'm surviving and thriving. Quick synopsis of my month:
- Work has taken a front seat to pretty much everything else, but at least I have job security.
- Weight Watcher's has been a great change of pace for me. I've started to really take stock of what I eat and how active I need to be. I've lost almost 9 pounds after 8 weeks. I'm super excited about my progress!
- Started back with my Beta Sigma Phi activities. I love spending time with this great group of ladies!
- Had the chance to spend time with a dear friend from my USC days during his visit to Columbia. Facebook has allowed me to reconnect with old friends that I thought I'd never see again.
- Been reading every free minute I get. Have read some really great books this past month.
- Our Girls have had some health issues. Kira & Sophie seem to be doing better now, and we are getting used to living with geriatric animals.
August 29, 2010
Take Me Home Country Road
Anyone who knows me well will tell you that I am quite impatient. I don't like to wait for anything or believe that anything should take too long. I can thank dear old dad for my lack of patience. I earned it honestly.
However I realized something recently. I was headed back home on a Sunday afternoon to celebrate my Granny's 91st birthday (rock on, Granny!). As usual, I-26 was slow, slow, slow. So I took a detour down 176 which isn't an unusual part of any drive home. The only difference is that usually Hubby is the one behind the wheel. Yet due to issues at work, he couldn't go with me so I had to drive by myself. My impatience was rearing it's ugly head the whole way down the road- people were pulling out in front of me and driving 10 miles UNDER the posted speed limit, turning with little or no turn signal, etc. I finally made it to Granny's house for the festivities and had fun with the family.
Then it was time to head back to the big Cola. Taking 176 from Granny's house is the easiest way to get back home. As I drove back with no time constraint hanging over my head and little traffic on the road this time, I started thinking about all the times I'd driven that road. In my driving years, I have spent a lot of time on 176. I drove it endlessly to visit my BFF in high school, head back to USC when there was a major traffic malfunction on I-26, or just take the long way somewhere. I started to remember how I was filled with so much anticipation for the fun that BFF and I had planned that day/night and the mischief that we were sure to find together. I remember driving that road with tears in my eyes when I had the realization that my first significant crush didn't feel the same way. I remember taking that road with another childhood friend to attend high school football games at an arch rival school and visit with friends we had there. I was overwhelmed with memories crashing through my mind like waves on the beach.
I had an Ah-Ha moment. Life isn't about how fast we can get somewhere and how fast we'll get back home. It isn't about what I can get now. It's about the time we take to slow down and breathe. It's about the memories- both good and bad- that have shaped our lives and make up our past. It's about just enjoying life.
So I encourage you to take the slow way to somewhere when you have the chance and enjoy the scenery. Even if you've seen it a million times or it's a brand new path, it's those moments when we slow down and reflect that make us thankful for the roads we've traveled. They have all led us to the people we are now.
Happy travels!
However I realized something recently. I was headed back home on a Sunday afternoon to celebrate my Granny's 91st birthday (rock on, Granny!). As usual, I-26 was slow, slow, slow. So I took a detour down 176 which isn't an unusual part of any drive home. The only difference is that usually Hubby is the one behind the wheel. Yet due to issues at work, he couldn't go with me so I had to drive by myself. My impatience was rearing it's ugly head the whole way down the road- people were pulling out in front of me and driving 10 miles UNDER the posted speed limit, turning with little or no turn signal, etc. I finally made it to Granny's house for the festivities and had fun with the family.
Then it was time to head back to the big Cola. Taking 176 from Granny's house is the easiest way to get back home. As I drove back with no time constraint hanging over my head and little traffic on the road this time, I started thinking about all the times I'd driven that road. In my driving years, I have spent a lot of time on 176. I drove it endlessly to visit my BFF in high school, head back to USC when there was a major traffic malfunction on I-26, or just take the long way somewhere. I started to remember how I was filled with so much anticipation for the fun that BFF and I had planned that day/night and the mischief that we were sure to find together. I remember driving that road with tears in my eyes when I had the realization that my first significant crush didn't feel the same way. I remember taking that road with another childhood friend to attend high school football games at an arch rival school and visit with friends we had there. I was overwhelmed with memories crashing through my mind like waves on the beach.
I had an Ah-Ha moment. Life isn't about how fast we can get somewhere and how fast we'll get back home. It isn't about what I can get now. It's about the time we take to slow down and breathe. It's about the memories- both good and bad- that have shaped our lives and make up our past. It's about just enjoying life.
So I encourage you to take the slow way to somewhere when you have the chance and enjoy the scenery. Even if you've seen it a million times or it's a brand new path, it's those moments when we slow down and reflect that make us thankful for the roads we've traveled. They have all led us to the people we are now.
Happy travels!
August 14, 2010
"We came, we saw, we kicked its ass!"
This classic line from Ghostbusters says so much about my day. We being mom & I. The ass we kicked being the Tanger Outlet in Sevierville, TN. We had quite the successful shopping trip this year. Got some Christmas shopping done for friends & family as well as bought a few goodies for myself.
I found some great deals and used coupons when I could. Did you know that you can show your AAA card at any Tanger Outlet mall office and get a free coupon book? Today, they gave me a coupon book AND a $5 gift card to be used in participating outlet stores. Oh happy day! I love a free gift card- no matter what the amount! Let's just say that gift card was put to good use rather quickly.
I won't discuss in great details all the wonderful deals I got b/c I'd hate to spoil surprises for my friends and family. I got myself 3 pairs of shoes (saved $60 on one pair alone), some books ( I know, I know... I have a habit that I can't seem to break), my very own Garden Gnome, and some magnets. I really worked hard to spend my money on other people this year.
Another shopping weekend goes into the history books as a success. Wonder what kind of deals I'll get next year?!
I found some great deals and used coupons when I could. Did you know that you can show your AAA card at any Tanger Outlet mall office and get a free coupon book? Today, they gave me a coupon book AND a $5 gift card to be used in participating outlet stores. Oh happy day! I love a free gift card- no matter what the amount! Let's just say that gift card was put to good use rather quickly.
I won't discuss in great details all the wonderful deals I got b/c I'd hate to spoil surprises for my friends and family. I got myself 3 pairs of shoes (saved $60 on one pair alone), some books ( I know, I know... I have a habit that I can't seem to break), my very own Garden Gnome, and some magnets. I really worked hard to spend my money on other people this year.
Another shopping weekend goes into the history books as a success. Wonder what kind of deals I'll get next year?!
August 12, 2010
My Favorite Place
Well, I'm in one of my favorite places in all the world- Pigeon Forge, TN. You are probably thinking that I'm totally sheltered if this "Myrtle Beach in the Smoky Mountains" is a favorite place of mine. Don't get me wrong- I love New York City with a passion that I can hardly put into words (I'll save that one for another post). I adore London, England and everywhere I've ever been in Canada.
Pigeon Forge is one of my favorite places because of what it means to me. It means a long weekend of precious time with my mom. We've been coming here for about 20 years. My granny used to come with us but since her heart attack many years ago, she stays home. We shop at the outlets, eat so much good food that it hurts, and just spend time together. We laugh and talk about everything. I believe that we actually solve 99.9% of the world's problems during these annual excursions, but no one will listen to us.
It's just an amazing weekend full of life & love. I know that these weekends are going to be some of the most precious memories I'll have when the time comes that we can't come here together anymore. So, I'm posting this from one of the best places in the world. Good night & God bless!
Pigeon Forge is one of my favorite places because of what it means to me. It means a long weekend of precious time with my mom. We've been coming here for about 20 years. My granny used to come with us but since her heart attack many years ago, she stays home. We shop at the outlets, eat so much good food that it hurts, and just spend time together. We laugh and talk about everything. I believe that we actually solve 99.9% of the world's problems during these annual excursions, but no one will listen to us.
It's just an amazing weekend full of life & love. I know that these weekends are going to be some of the most precious memories I'll have when the time comes that we can't come here together anymore. So, I'm posting this from one of the best places in the world. Good night & God bless!
August 1, 2010
To Lose or Not to Lose...
My friends & family know that I don't generally make too much of a fuss about my physical appearance. I'm not into the latest fashion trends and don't wear make-up. I'm pretty low maintenance. However, I have one complaint- my weight.
Now, what woman doesn't worry or struggle with her weight? Pretty much every lady I know has fought this battle. Some of have succeeded and some have not. I fall into the have not category. In college, I was at a personally satisfying weight. I was also more active then than I am now which helped keep it under control. I'm not obese, but I am overweight according to my doctor (and my mirror when I step out of the shower).
I love food and I'm lazy. Not a good combination when you struggle with your weight. Hubby and I both need to lose several pounds and are trying to get motivated. I may have found some motivation- Weight Watchers.
When I lived in Flo-Town, a co-worker shared a "bootleg" copy of the Weight Watchers point system with me. Her sister was on the WW program and shared the information with her. So she shared it with several of us. I must say that I was never so conscientious of what I ate as I was when I knew I needed to make every point count. I made a few small changes back then that have stayed with me even now. But like so many other things, I dropped the ball and got wrapped up in life.
Now, I need to make some changes and need to be held accountable. So I've been researching Weight Watchers. I'm seriously thinking about breaking out the checkbook and going to a meeting this week. I've found a location close to home that meets at a convenient time. I'm wondering if a support group will help motivate me. I figure that it won't hurt.
Anyone have any WW experiences to share? I'd love to hear what you think. Now, here's to losing a few pounds!
Now, what woman doesn't worry or struggle with her weight? Pretty much every lady I know has fought this battle. Some of have succeeded and some have not. I fall into the have not category. In college, I was at a personally satisfying weight. I was also more active then than I am now which helped keep it under control. I'm not obese, but I am overweight according to my doctor (and my mirror when I step out of the shower).
I love food and I'm lazy. Not a good combination when you struggle with your weight. Hubby and I both need to lose several pounds and are trying to get motivated. I may have found some motivation- Weight Watchers.
When I lived in Flo-Town, a co-worker shared a "bootleg" copy of the Weight Watchers point system with me. Her sister was on the WW program and shared the information with her. So she shared it with several of us. I must say that I was never so conscientious of what I ate as I was when I knew I needed to make every point count. I made a few small changes back then that have stayed with me even now. But like so many other things, I dropped the ball and got wrapped up in life.
Now, I need to make some changes and need to be held accountable. So I've been researching Weight Watchers. I'm seriously thinking about breaking out the checkbook and going to a meeting this week. I've found a location close to home that meets at a convenient time. I'm wondering if a support group will help motivate me. I figure that it won't hurt.
Anyone have any WW experiences to share? I'd love to hear what you think. Now, here's to losing a few pounds!
July 17, 2010
The Lifetimers
People have often made fun of my Facebook addiction. I'll admit- sometimes I do spend too much time on there playing games and following friends' exploits. But what a wonderful tool for reconnection it has become for me.
Just recently, I received a friend request from a dear college friend that I hadn't heard from in a decade. I'd been trying to find him since discovering Facebook, but none of our mutual friends were in contact with him anymore. Benji was my little brother in our fraternity/sorority world and also one of my closest confidants. I could talk to him about anything, and he'd listen and offer an unbiased (read honest!) opinion when I needed it. He made me laugh at myself and others. I could always count on him, and for a while, we were inseparable. However, life took control after college ended and we lost touch.
So, low & behold when I got that friend request, I couldn't hit accept fast enough! And you know what- no matter how many years have passed and all that has transpired in each of our lives, we have picked up right where we left off. He still listens and lets me ramble while being a voice of reason when I need it. We've caught each other up on the details of our lives and are moving forward as older, wiser friends.
I'm often reminded of the "Reason, Season, Lifetime" poem when I reflect upon the people that have come & gone from my life. Sometimes, you think someone was a just Season because you've lost touch and time has passed. Then you get the opportunity to reconnect and realize that person is one of the Lifetimers- and always will be. And that's all I need to know when it comes to a friend.
Just recently, I received a friend request from a dear college friend that I hadn't heard from in a decade. I'd been trying to find him since discovering Facebook, but none of our mutual friends were in contact with him anymore. Benji was my little brother in our fraternity/sorority world and also one of my closest confidants. I could talk to him about anything, and he'd listen and offer an unbiased (read honest!) opinion when I needed it. He made me laugh at myself and others. I could always count on him, and for a while, we were inseparable. However, life took control after college ended and we lost touch.
So, low & behold when I got that friend request, I couldn't hit accept fast enough! And you know what- no matter how many years have passed and all that has transpired in each of our lives, we have picked up right where we left off. He still listens and lets me ramble while being a voice of reason when I need it. We've caught each other up on the details of our lives and are moving forward as older, wiser friends.
I'm often reminded of the "Reason, Season, Lifetime" poem when I reflect upon the people that have come & gone from my life. Sometimes, you think someone was a just Season because you've lost touch and time has passed. Then you get the opportunity to reconnect and realize that person is one of the Lifetimers- and always will be. And that's all I need to know when it comes to a friend.
July 7, 2010
Happy Belated Birthday, America!
America is great because America is good, and if America ever cease to be good, America will cease to be great.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville,1833
Three days ago we celebrated the birth of America- the greatest nation on Earth. The fourth of July has always been a special holiday in my family. Not only does it mark the middle of summer between school semesters, but it is a time to honor the many freedoms we enjoy based solely on the land in which we live. Freedom of religion, speech, the right to bear arms, ability to come and go as we please, shop where we want, do what we want (within the limits of the law), and all sorts of other freedoms. But these freedoms don't come free. Someone has to pay the price. Since 1776, men and women have sacrificed, fought and died so that we can remain free.
My uncle Larry lost his life in Vietnam in 1969. He was a PFC in the US Marine Corps and only 18 years old. He gave his life saving a fellow Marine. I never knew him and have only seen pictures of him. I've found his name on the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, DC twice. Seeing it and touching it always gets me choked up. To some, he and the 58,266 other soldiers are just names carved in granite. To me, he is someone I'll only know as a picture in the hall outside my bedroom door and the younger brother my dad will never forget. He's one of my heroes because of his service to our country.
My brother is currently serving his second tour overseas. He missed the births of his two children due to deployments in addition to countless holidays & birthdays. It's bittersweet not celebrating our Nation's birthday with him, but I know he was celebrating in a different way. He's over there so I can remain free over here.
The many men and women in our Armed Forces have a more important job than I will ever have. I'll never save someone's life or defend their freedom by giving my own life. I'll never stand before a hostile enemy and pray that I see my family again. I'll never take off a pair of combat boots and shake desert sand out of them, but many others will do that every day so that I can do my job and enjoy the many freedoms I experience here.
God bless America and our soldiers!
~ Alexis de Tocqueville,1833
Three days ago we celebrated the birth of America- the greatest nation on Earth. The fourth of July has always been a special holiday in my family. Not only does it mark the middle of summer between school semesters, but it is a time to honor the many freedoms we enjoy based solely on the land in which we live. Freedom of religion, speech, the right to bear arms, ability to come and go as we please, shop where we want, do what we want (within the limits of the law), and all sorts of other freedoms. But these freedoms don't come free. Someone has to pay the price. Since 1776, men and women have sacrificed, fought and died so that we can remain free.
My uncle Larry lost his life in Vietnam in 1969. He was a PFC in the US Marine Corps and only 18 years old. He gave his life saving a fellow Marine. I never knew him and have only seen pictures of him. I've found his name on the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, DC twice. Seeing it and touching it always gets me choked up. To some, he and the 58,266 other soldiers are just names carved in granite. To me, he is someone I'll only know as a picture in the hall outside my bedroom door and the younger brother my dad will never forget. He's one of my heroes because of his service to our country.
My brother is currently serving his second tour overseas. He missed the births of his two children due to deployments in addition to countless holidays & birthdays. It's bittersweet not celebrating our Nation's birthday with him, but I know he was celebrating in a different way. He's over there so I can remain free over here.
The many men and women in our Armed Forces have a more important job than I will ever have. I'll never save someone's life or defend their freedom by giving my own life. I'll never stand before a hostile enemy and pray that I see my family again. I'll never take off a pair of combat boots and shake desert sand out of them, but many others will do that every day so that I can do my job and enjoy the many freedoms I experience here.
God bless America and our soldiers!
June 30, 2010
Go Gamecocks!!
I'm a proud University of South Carolina fan and alum today. Our baseball team won the College World Series and brought a National Championship trophy home today. It's an amazing day to be a Gamecock!
June 21, 2010
Proud to Be.....
I consider myself many things that I am proud to be:
Wife
Daughter/Granddaughter/Niece
Sister
Aunt
Mommy to Kira & Sophie
Friend
Christian
Sister of Beta Sigma Phi & Tau Beta Sigma
Professional Woman
Avid Book Lover
Movie Line Connoisseur
Gamecock Fan
But I found a shirt that says what I'm truly most proud to be:
Yep- I am pretty awesome if I do say so myself!
Hope everyone had a happy Monday and an even better week!
Wife
Daughter/Granddaughter/Niece
Sister
Aunt
Mommy to Kira & Sophie
Friend
Christian
Sister of Beta Sigma Phi & Tau Beta Sigma
Professional Woman
Avid Book Lover
Movie Line Connoisseur
Gamecock Fan
But I found a shirt that says what I'm truly most proud to be:
Yep- I am pretty awesome if I do say so myself!Hope everyone had a happy Monday and an even better week!
June 15, 2010
Lights! Camera! Favorite Movies!
Hello friends! I've been crazy busy with the new job duties and am sorry to have neglected my blog. I mentioned in my inaugural post that I love movies. Hubby and I used to go to the movies every week for the first 2 years we dated, but we don't do that as frequently as we once did. However, Blockbuster Online and our personal DVD collection are enough to keep us entertained. I recently counted, and we have almost 300 DVDs in our collection. I guess you could say that books aren't the only thing that I like to buy.
I'd like to take this blog to share a few of my all-time favorite movies and what they mean to me:
American Beauty- Kevin Spacey exploded on the screen as a married father in the throws of a mid-life crisis. I remember going to see this one in the theater and wondering if I should really be laughing at poor Mr. Spacey's character and his life. This movie is a black comedy in every sense of the word. Excellent acting by Kevin Spacey, Annette Benning, and Thora Birch! We were also introduced to some classic movie lines (and I do LOVE a good movie line!). "That's my wife, Carolyn. See the way the handle on her pruning shears matches her gardening clogs? That's not an accident. "
The Goonies- My childhood would not have been complete without this movie. I remember getting it on VHS when I was a kid and being over the moon excited. I would watch it almost every day. I think it was the sense of adventure it provoked within kids that made it so great. I remember thinking the group of misfits on the screen were people that I'd have given anything to hang out with and have an amazing Goonie adventure. This movie allowed kids to dream and launched the career of some famous actors: Corey Feldman, Josh Brolin, Sean Astin and Martha Plimpton. I had heart palpitations when I recently read there will be an anniversary edition coming out on DVD in November. That DVD will so be in our ever-growing collection! "BABY RUTH!"
Coming to America- My absolute favorite Eddie Murphy movie EVER! How many crazy characters can Eddie play in one movie and make me LMAO?! A whole lot!!! "Give a hand to my band, Sexual Chocolate. They play so beautiful, don't you agree?"
Sixteen Candles- What child of the 80s doesn't adore a Molly Ringwald movie?! This one is classic. It was pretty much any teenager's nightmare to realize that your family forgot your birthday. That would be a nightmare for me now. And who can forget the cast of characters that Molly encounters in this one: The Geek, Long Duk Dong and the outrageous grandparents. "Dong. Where is my automobile?" "Oto-mo-biiile?"
Airplane- This is the movie that started the spoof genre in my humble opinion. Future spoofs disappoint compared to this one (with the possible exception of the Wayans' Brothers infamous spoof movies). Airplane is just plain hilarious without being gross or vulgar. It contains witty humor and non-stop laughs. It also provides me with MANY beloved movie quotes that I've been known to use religiously.
Reporter: What kind of plane is it?
Johnny: Oh, it's a big pretty white plane with red stripes, curtains in the windows and wheels and it looks like a big Tylenol.
"Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit drinking. (smoking, sniffing glue, amphetamines)"
Alas, I could go on and on, but I won't- maybe in another post. These are just a few movie classics that I'll always count among my favorites and would want with me if I were stranded on a deserted island with a DVD player & TV. Like that would ever happen!
I'd like to take this blog to share a few of my all-time favorite movies and what they mean to me:
American Beauty- Kevin Spacey exploded on the screen as a married father in the throws of a mid-life crisis. I remember going to see this one in the theater and wondering if I should really be laughing at poor Mr. Spacey's character and his life. This movie is a black comedy in every sense of the word. Excellent acting by Kevin Spacey, Annette Benning, and Thora Birch! We were also introduced to some classic movie lines (and I do LOVE a good movie line!). "That's my wife, Carolyn. See the way the handle on her pruning shears matches her gardening clogs? That's not an accident. "
The Goonies- My childhood would not have been complete without this movie. I remember getting it on VHS when I was a kid and being over the moon excited. I would watch it almost every day. I think it was the sense of adventure it provoked within kids that made it so great. I remember thinking the group of misfits on the screen were people that I'd have given anything to hang out with and have an amazing Goonie adventure. This movie allowed kids to dream and launched the career of some famous actors: Corey Feldman, Josh Brolin, Sean Astin and Martha Plimpton. I had heart palpitations when I recently read there will be an anniversary edition coming out on DVD in November. That DVD will so be in our ever-growing collection! "BABY RUTH!"
Coming to America- My absolute favorite Eddie Murphy movie EVER! How many crazy characters can Eddie play in one movie and make me LMAO?! A whole lot!!! "Give a hand to my band, Sexual Chocolate. They play so beautiful, don't you agree?"
Sixteen Candles- What child of the 80s doesn't adore a Molly Ringwald movie?! This one is classic. It was pretty much any teenager's nightmare to realize that your family forgot your birthday. That would be a nightmare for me now. And who can forget the cast of characters that Molly encounters in this one: The Geek, Long Duk Dong and the outrageous grandparents. "Dong. Where is my automobile?" "Oto-mo-biiile?"
Airplane- This is the movie that started the spoof genre in my humble opinion. Future spoofs disappoint compared to this one (with the possible exception of the Wayans' Brothers infamous spoof movies). Airplane is just plain hilarious without being gross or vulgar. It contains witty humor and non-stop laughs. It also provides me with MANY beloved movie quotes that I've been known to use religiously.
Reporter: What kind of plane is it?
Johnny: Oh, it's a big pretty white plane with red stripes, curtains in the windows and wheels and it looks like a big Tylenol.
"Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit drinking. (smoking, sniffing glue, amphetamines)"
Alas, I could go on and on, but I won't- maybe in another post. These are just a few movie classics that I'll always count among my favorites and would want with me if I were stranded on a deserted island with a DVD player & TV. Like that would ever happen!
June 3, 2010
A Week of Randomness
Another week has almost ended (thank heavens!) and I'm ready for the weekend. It's been a busy yet good week. Enjoyed a lovely day off on Monday while Hubby had to work. Boo hiss! I did find time to stimulate our nation's economy (Yes- Barnes & Noble was visited and books were purchased. It is still cheaper than crack!) and I got my FREE Spicy Chick-Fil-A Chicken Sandwich. It was decent but a little more spice than I like. Sophie the Pug begged for a bite but had to settle for pieces of waffle fries instead. Don't want to even THINK what such spicy goodness would have done to her tummy.
Started my new job on Wednesday. Two days in and I feel like my brain has reached it's threshold of memory capacity. That or I just don't have a damn clue. I'm leaning toward the second option. One positive is that my work days fly by now. When you have trouble remembering that you needed to visit the bathroom an hour ago, that is a whole lot of busy. But the people I'm working with and advocating for have been very supportive and encouraging. It is making it all worth while.
All the stormy mess we've been experiencing this week left us a mess. HUGE limb fell out a tree last night and we had to clean it up. And Hubby tried to tell me that crash last night was something on the TV. Bet he'll listen to me next time! Hubby with a chainsaw is sort of like Texas Chainsaw Massacre without all the gore and wearing of a human skin mask. I just stayed out of his way until the limb was chopped up. If I'd been manning the chainsaw, limbs (the human kind) would have been lost- so thanks to Hubby for his chainsaw prowess. I forgot how rewarding yard work can be after a long day at work. It's a great way to de-stress.
Heading to the 'Burg on Saturday for some doggone fun at Bark in the Park. Sophie the Pug is super excited! She loves seeing other dogs and acting all superior to them. Pugs have that kind of attitude and you just have to deal with it. She thinks she is superior to us, too.
Hope everyone is having a great week and has plans for a lovely weekend.
Started my new job on Wednesday. Two days in and I feel like my brain has reached it's threshold of memory capacity. That or I just don't have a damn clue. I'm leaning toward the second option. One positive is that my work days fly by now. When you have trouble remembering that you needed to visit the bathroom an hour ago, that is a whole lot of busy. But the people I'm working with and advocating for have been very supportive and encouraging. It is making it all worth while.
All the stormy mess we've been experiencing this week left us a mess. HUGE limb fell out a tree last night and we had to clean it up. And Hubby tried to tell me that crash last night was something on the TV. Bet he'll listen to me next time! Hubby with a chainsaw is sort of like Texas Chainsaw Massacre without all the gore and wearing of a human skin mask. I just stayed out of his way until the limb was chopped up. If I'd been manning the chainsaw, limbs (the human kind) would have been lost- so thanks to Hubby for his chainsaw prowess. I forgot how rewarding yard work can be after a long day at work. It's a great way to de-stress.
Heading to the 'Burg on Saturday for some doggone fun at Bark in the Park. Sophie the Pug is super excited! She loves seeing other dogs and acting all superior to them. Pugs have that kind of attitude and you just have to deal with it. She thinks she is superior to us, too.
Hope everyone is having a great week and has plans for a lovely weekend.
May 28, 2010
Another Fun, Frivolous Friday
I'm just rolling back into town after attending a conference at the beach this week. Thought my experience there would provide fodder for an interesting and riveting blog post. However, no such luck. So, in honor of nothing special, I decided to share a little more about myself by recycling a classic chain letter thing that circled the globe on Facebook. Check out my musical tastes- but please don't judge!
What does your music library say about you?
*Put Your iTunes, winamp, mp3 player or whatever on SHUFFLE
*For each question, press the next button to get your answer (no cheating!!)
*You must write down song/artist even if it doesn't make sense
*Include any comments in parenthesis
1. What do your friends say about you?
Love You Out Loud- Rascal Flatts
2. How would your coworkers describe you?!
The Real Slim Shady- Eminem (After I assume my new job duties, this will probably be pretty accurate!)
3. How would you describe yourself?
I'll Go to My Grave Loving You- The Statler Brothers (it's important to like yourself b/c that's the one person you'll always be stuck with)
4. What do you like in a romantic partner?
You Mean the World to Me- Toni Braxton (Hubby is the center of my universe and the feeling is very mutual!)
5. How do you feel today?
End of the Road- Boyz II Men (It is Friday after all!)
6. What is your life’s purpose?
Shriner's Convention- Ray Stevens (Don't think so...)
7. What is your motto?
She Went Out for Cigarettes- Chely Wright (Smoking is not something I advocate, m'kay?)
8. What do you think about the most?
Do You Remember These?- The Statler Brothers (I do like to reflect on the past.)
9. What are you going to do on your next vacation?
Mother and Child Reunion- Paul Simon (My annual shopping trip with Mom is coming up this summer)
10. What do you think of your first love/date?
Flowers on the Wall- The Statler Brothers
11. What is your life story?
Poor Unfortunate Souls- The Little Mermaid (I've known a few of these in my time.)
12. What did you do yesterday?
Watch the Wind Blow By- Tim McGraw (I was at the beach enjoying the ocean breezes)
13. What do you think of when you see the person you like/love?
Video Killed the Radio Star- The Buggles
14. What describes your wedding?
Go- George Strait
15. What will they play at your funeral?
Need You Tonight- INXS (I have no idea what to even say about this one.)
16. What is your obsession?
Lot of Leavin' Left to Do- Dierks Bentley
17. What is your biggest fear?
Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off- Joe Nichols (I don't get drunk in PUBLIC for a reason. LOL)
18. What is your biggest secret?
Best I Ever Had- Gary Allan
19. What is your biggest turn-on?
The One- Gary Allan
20. How do you describe your friends?
I Found Someone- Michael Bolton (I'm blessed to have the friends I do in my life. They have saved me time and time again. Some have come and gone, but the ones who stuck around are the ones who matter.)
21. What would you do with a million dollars?
My Favorite Mistake- Sheryl Crow
22. What is your opinion of sex?
I Want My Goodbye Back- Ty Herndon
23. What is your biggest regret?
Rhythm Nation- Janet Jackson (I regret that I am not as good a dancer as Janet Jackson. I apologize for embarrassing my friends with my horrific dance moves over the years.)
24. What would you rather be doing right now?!
Colors of the Wind- Pocahontas
25. What will you post this list as?
I Think I'm in Love with You- Jessica Simpson (courtesy of the Dawson's Creek Soundtrack Vol. 2)
The King of Country Music (and the greatest performer EVER!)- George Strait
What does your music library say about you?
*Put Your iTunes, winamp, mp3 player or whatever on SHUFFLE
*For each question, press the next button to get your answer (no cheating!!)
*You must write down song/artist even if it doesn't make sense
*Include any comments in parenthesis
1. What do your friends say about you?
Love You Out Loud- Rascal Flatts
2. How would your coworkers describe you?!
The Real Slim Shady- Eminem (After I assume my new job duties, this will probably be pretty accurate!)
3. How would you describe yourself?
I'll Go to My Grave Loving You- The Statler Brothers (it's important to like yourself b/c that's the one person you'll always be stuck with)
4. What do you like in a romantic partner?
You Mean the World to Me- Toni Braxton (Hubby is the center of my universe and the feeling is very mutual!)
5. How do you feel today?
End of the Road- Boyz II Men (It is Friday after all!)
6. What is your life’s purpose?
Shriner's Convention- Ray Stevens (Don't think so...)
7. What is your motto?
She Went Out for Cigarettes- Chely Wright (Smoking is not something I advocate, m'kay?)
8. What do you think about the most?
Do You Remember These?- The Statler Brothers (I do like to reflect on the past.)
9. What are you going to do on your next vacation?
Mother and Child Reunion- Paul Simon (My annual shopping trip with Mom is coming up this summer)
10. What do you think of your first love/date?
Flowers on the Wall- The Statler Brothers
11. What is your life story?
Poor Unfortunate Souls- The Little Mermaid (I've known a few of these in my time.)
12. What did you do yesterday?
Watch the Wind Blow By- Tim McGraw (I was at the beach enjoying the ocean breezes)
13. What do you think of when you see the person you like/love?
Video Killed the Radio Star- The Buggles
14. What describes your wedding?
Go- George Strait
15. What will they play at your funeral?
Need You Tonight- INXS (I have no idea what to even say about this one.)
16. What is your obsession?
Lot of Leavin' Left to Do- Dierks Bentley
17. What is your biggest fear?
Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off- Joe Nichols (I don't get drunk in PUBLIC for a reason. LOL)
18. What is your biggest secret?
Best I Ever Had- Gary Allan
19. What is your biggest turn-on?
The One- Gary Allan
20. How do you describe your friends?
I Found Someone- Michael Bolton (I'm blessed to have the friends I do in my life. They have saved me time and time again. Some have come and gone, but the ones who stuck around are the ones who matter.)
21. What would you do with a million dollars?
My Favorite Mistake- Sheryl Crow
22. What is your opinion of sex?
I Want My Goodbye Back- Ty Herndon
23. What is your biggest regret?
Rhythm Nation- Janet Jackson (I regret that I am not as good a dancer as Janet Jackson. I apologize for embarrassing my friends with my horrific dance moves over the years.)
24. What would you rather be doing right now?!
Colors of the Wind- Pocahontas
25. What will you post this list as?
I Think I'm in Love with You- Jessica Simpson (courtesy of the Dawson's Creek Soundtrack Vol. 2)
The King of Country Music (and the greatest performer EVER!)- George Strait
May 20, 2010
Life is Full of Change and Crazy People
The times they are a changin'. Since my last post, I've been offered and accepted a new position at work. It will be an interesting change of pace and some additional work stress, but it is a great opportunity. I'm excited about what the future holds. Now, I don't usually discuss my professional life on my blog, but I had to share my news.
Now, on to the real reason reason for my post. Why must crazy people be part of my life? I'm not talking about the crazy people that entertain me either on purpose or by simply being their crazy self. I'm talking about the psycho people that continue to call your house and leave nasty messages one day and then call the next day and want to apologize for whatever they've done to prevent you from returning their call. Yep- our house became plagued with these kinds of calls for several days recently. It's like this: dude, if we wanted to to talk to you, we'd call you back. Obviously if you leave a nasty & borderline threatening message on our voicemail, Hubby and I are pretty much NOT going to give you air in a jug much less a return phone call. Get a grip & lose our phone numbers!
So here's a word to the wise: If you call and issue vague threats to either Hubby or me, we will not return your call (no matter how much you beg us to do so) and we will laugh at your sorry, pathetic ass for however long we find the situation amusing. And we'll tell our friends about it as we all get a good laugh (at your expense of course).
Be good to each other & don't abuse the telephone!
Now, on to the real reason reason for my post. Why must crazy people be part of my life? I'm not talking about the crazy people that entertain me either on purpose or by simply being their crazy self. I'm talking about the psycho people that continue to call your house and leave nasty messages one day and then call the next day and want to apologize for whatever they've done to prevent you from returning their call. Yep- our house became plagued with these kinds of calls for several days recently. It's like this: dude, if we wanted to to talk to you, we'd call you back. Obviously if you leave a nasty & borderline threatening message on our voicemail, Hubby and I are pretty much NOT going to give you air in a jug much less a return phone call. Get a grip & lose our phone numbers!
So here's a word to the wise: If you call and issue vague threats to either Hubby or me, we will not return your call (no matter how much you beg us to do so) and we will laugh at your sorry, pathetic ass for however long we find the situation amusing. And we'll tell our friends about it as we all get a good laugh (at your expense of course).
Be good to each other & don't abuse the telephone!
May 12, 2010
My Name is Suzanne, and I am a Book-A-Holic
I've always known I had an addiction. Ever since childhood, I have loved books. I remember going to the school library and running to a favorite section to find something new & exciting to read. Back in those days, I usually preferred a good Nancy Drew mystery or biography about a famous American. In 25+ years, my tastes in books hasn't changed much. I still love a good mystery/suspense plot and enjoy reading about the real life stories of others. In fact, I'll read almost anything- fiction, horror, true crime, mystery, biography, etc. About the only thing I won't read is a Harlequin Romance novel. I read enough VC Andrews in middle and high school to make up for my lack of appreciation for the romance genre today. I thought I'd share a few of my favorites.
The Last Time That They Met by Anita Shreve: This was the book that made me fall in love with this author. The "oh-my-gosh-did-I-just-read-that" ending is one thing that makes this book great (in my opinion). It's one book that I'll often pick up and just read the last 2 pages and say "Wow!" every single time. But the ending isn't the only good thing. This is a beautiful story about love, loss and coming to terms with the decisions that shape our lives.
Anything by Anne Rule: Anne Rule is the queen of the true crime genre. Her well-researched books on crimes that boggle the mind are hard to put down. She makes it her mission to write the full truth- from court proceedings to interviews with the victims' families and friends. I was thrilled to get the chance to meet her at an Atlanta book signing a few years ago because she is a gracious lady.
Anything by Stephen King: King is the King when it comes to the horror genre. I make it a mission to own anything he writes (with the exception of his sci-fi stuff) and buy it in hardback as soon as it hits bookshelves. I'm really proud of my Stephen King collection in our home library.
The Falls by Joyce Carol Oates: A beautifully written novel about love and loss that revolves around Niagara Falls. Written with some historical accuracy, Oates paints a picture of a tormented woman who copes with a tragic loss on her wedding night.
That's just a few of my must-reads. I could go on and on about my favorite authors and books, but no one wants to read a novel on a blog post. Let's just say that Anne Rule, Mary Higgins Clark, Stephen King, and select others have taken the place of Nancy Drew on my preferred reading list and the bookshelves in my home. And when my husband rolls his eyes because I come home with yet another bag of books from Barnes and Noble (my own personal heaven on Earth), I can only say this: It's cheaper than crack!
The Last Time That They Met by Anita Shreve: This was the book that made me fall in love with this author. The "oh-my-gosh-did-I-just-read-that" ending is one thing that makes this book great (in my opinion). It's one book that I'll often pick up and just read the last 2 pages and say "Wow!" every single time. But the ending isn't the only good thing. This is a beautiful story about love, loss and coming to terms with the decisions that shape our lives.
Anything by Anne Rule: Anne Rule is the queen of the true crime genre. Her well-researched books on crimes that boggle the mind are hard to put down. She makes it her mission to write the full truth- from court proceedings to interviews with the victims' families and friends. I was thrilled to get the chance to meet her at an Atlanta book signing a few years ago because she is a gracious lady.
Anything by Stephen King: King is the King when it comes to the horror genre. I make it a mission to own anything he writes (with the exception of his sci-fi stuff) and buy it in hardback as soon as it hits bookshelves. I'm really proud of my Stephen King collection in our home library.
The Falls by Joyce Carol Oates: A beautifully written novel about love and loss that revolves around Niagara Falls. Written with some historical accuracy, Oates paints a picture of a tormented woman who copes with a tragic loss on her wedding night.
That's just a few of my must-reads. I could go on and on about my favorite authors and books, but no one wants to read a novel on a blog post. Let's just say that Anne Rule, Mary Higgins Clark, Stephen King, and select others have taken the place of Nancy Drew on my preferred reading list and the bookshelves in my home. And when my husband rolls his eyes because I come home with yet another bag of books from Barnes and Noble (my own personal heaven on Earth), I can only say this: It's cheaper than crack!
May 7, 2010
I'm a Slacker. What More Can I Say?
Life has been crazy this past week and I've neglected to post. So here is a recap of what I've been doing:
Had an awesome birthday!!! Hubby took me to dinner and gave me Seasons 1 & 2 of Big Love. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that show! Nothing screams entertainment like a little polygamy dysfunction. Received lots of well wishes from my wonderful friends & family. Y'all made me feel so special.
Then spent a few days feeling like poo. Missed a dear friend's wedding over the weekend and was generally feeling UGH! So I was a lazy slug for the rest of the weekend.
Monday marked 2 years of wedded bliss with Hubby. Had a yummy dinner and got some bling. My man does good when it comes to gift giving.
Then I felt like major poo for another day and just laid around the house.
Then a few uneventful days at work brings us full circle. So.... that's what I was up to when I wasn't wowing y'all with my witty insights.
Hope everyone has fabulous weekend with their moms and just spends time enjoying life!
Had an awesome birthday!!! Hubby took me to dinner and gave me Seasons 1 & 2 of Big Love. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that show! Nothing screams entertainment like a little polygamy dysfunction. Received lots of well wishes from my wonderful friends & family. Y'all made me feel so special.
Then spent a few days feeling like poo. Missed a dear friend's wedding over the weekend and was generally feeling UGH! So I was a lazy slug for the rest of the weekend.
Monday marked 2 years of wedded bliss with Hubby. Had a yummy dinner and got some bling. My man does good when it comes to gift giving.
Then I felt like major poo for another day and just laid around the house.
Then a few uneventful days at work brings us full circle. So.... that's what I was up to when I wasn't wowing y'all with my witty insights.
Hope everyone has fabulous weekend with their moms and just spends time enjoying life!
April 28, 2010
When They Made Us They Broke the Mold. Probably Fired the Moldmaker, Too.
My favorite day of the year is almost upon us- April 30th (i.e., my birthday). I'm one of those crazy people who celebrates my birthday over the course of several days. I don't go all out with big parties where my friends shower me with love, attention and lots of expensive gifts. I prefer just spending time with family and friends, enjoying good food and good times, and laughing. If they want to give me expensive gifts, who am I to say no?
As I look forward to my birthday, I'm reminded of other April 30th babies. Who wouldn't want to share a birthday with Willie Nelson or Cloris Leachman? I mean, really, that's quite impressive. But I'm more proud of sharing this day with people that I know personally.
The first person that comes to mind is Little Rock. (**If you haven't noticed yet, I prefer to use aliases when writing about others so as to protect them from having to admit they actually know me.) Little Rock is the younger sister of my best friend from college- Drewty. When Drewty and I became friends and were getting to know one another by exchanging random, trivial information with one another, we realized that Little Rock was born exactly 8 years after me.
I remember my 8th birthday vividly. My family came to the big city (Columbia) to visit Riverbanks Zoo. After visiting the few animals that were living at the zoo back in the early 80s (Those red-ass baboons were there in all their glory!), we went to my aunt's apartment for cake & gifts. I can still picture my cake decorated with a likeness of Strawberry Shortcake (the sweet 1980s version NOT the hootchie mama version staring down at me from shelves in Target's toy dept today). I remember laughing with Drewty that I was probably laughing at the red-ass baboons while Little Rock was making her world debut. Kind of fitting since Drewty acts like a baboon from time to time. Seriously though, I feel like I got to watch Little Rock grow up from a cool high schooler to an amazing woman. She is super awesome at all things- especially softball. Homegirl can pitch like no one's business! I don't get to see her very often these days, but I always think of her on April 30th and send some positive vibes her way.
April 30th wouldn't be complete without BW. BW is my soulmate (in a totally non-romantic way). Picture it: I'm a wet-behind-the-ears health educator working in the Pee Dee and have to spend the day with a nursing student. Enter BW. He is finishing his nursing degree and getting ready to join the working world. Before he can graduate, he must observe a world-class health educator or fail his class miserably. Not really- but he did have to observe someone for his class and he got stuck with me. Anyway after a couple hours together, I wished him well and went on with life. A few months later, I go to the health dept to teach a class and who do I run into in the hall- BW! He works there now. Coincidence #1. Again, we wish one another well and go on with life. A year later, I am working in the big city (Columbia) and who started at the same health dept on the exact same day? You guessed it- BW! Coincidence #2. Several months go by and who gets an office down the hall from me. Yep- BW! Coincidence #3. Then I move to a new office on another floor. Hello howdy- 6 months later, BW has his own office across the hall!
Work coincidences aside, there's more: we share the same birthday only 2 years apart. Our brothers' birthdays are a mere 2 days and 2 years apart. By now, I've lost count of all the freaky coincidences, but along the way I've gained a wonderful friend. We laugh together everyday about practically anything and encourage one another with life's choices. We know that no matter where life takes us in the future we will always have a friend to lean on. And we know that our friendship is not based upon a series of weird coincidences.
So, here's a toast to 2 fellow April 30th babies. You ain't Cloris or Willie, but I couldn't have chosen 2 cooler people to share my special day with. Happy Birthday, Little Rock & BW!! And oh yeah- ME!
As I look forward to my birthday, I'm reminded of other April 30th babies. Who wouldn't want to share a birthday with Willie Nelson or Cloris Leachman? I mean, really, that's quite impressive. But I'm more proud of sharing this day with people that I know personally.
The first person that comes to mind is Little Rock. (**If you haven't noticed yet, I prefer to use aliases when writing about others so as to protect them from having to admit they actually know me.) Little Rock is the younger sister of my best friend from college- Drewty. When Drewty and I became friends and were getting to know one another by exchanging random, trivial information with one another, we realized that Little Rock was born exactly 8 years after me.
I remember my 8th birthday vividly. My family came to the big city (Columbia) to visit Riverbanks Zoo. After visiting the few animals that were living at the zoo back in the early 80s (Those red-ass baboons were there in all their glory!), we went to my aunt's apartment for cake & gifts. I can still picture my cake decorated with a likeness of Strawberry Shortcake (the sweet 1980s version NOT the hootchie mama version staring down at me from shelves in Target's toy dept today). I remember laughing with Drewty that I was probably laughing at the red-ass baboons while Little Rock was making her world debut. Kind of fitting since Drewty acts like a baboon from time to time. Seriously though, I feel like I got to watch Little Rock grow up from a cool high schooler to an amazing woman. She is super awesome at all things- especially softball. Homegirl can pitch like no one's business! I don't get to see her very often these days, but I always think of her on April 30th and send some positive vibes her way.
April 30th wouldn't be complete without BW. BW is my soulmate (in a totally non-romantic way). Picture it: I'm a wet-behind-the-ears health educator working in the Pee Dee and have to spend the day with a nursing student. Enter BW. He is finishing his nursing degree and getting ready to join the working world. Before he can graduate, he must observe a world-class health educator or fail his class miserably. Not really- but he did have to observe someone for his class and he got stuck with me. Anyway after a couple hours together, I wished him well and went on with life. A few months later, I go to the health dept to teach a class and who do I run into in the hall- BW! He works there now. Coincidence #1. Again, we wish one another well and go on with life. A year later, I am working in the big city (Columbia) and who started at the same health dept on the exact same day? You guessed it- BW! Coincidence #2. Several months go by and who gets an office down the hall from me. Yep- BW! Coincidence #3. Then I move to a new office on another floor. Hello howdy- 6 months later, BW has his own office across the hall!
Work coincidences aside, there's more: we share the same birthday only 2 years apart. Our brothers' birthdays are a mere 2 days and 2 years apart. By now, I've lost count of all the freaky coincidences, but along the way I've gained a wonderful friend. We laugh together everyday about practically anything and encourage one another with life's choices. We know that no matter where life takes us in the future we will always have a friend to lean on. And we know that our friendship is not based upon a series of weird coincidences.
So, here's a toast to 2 fellow April 30th babies. You ain't Cloris or Willie, but I couldn't have chosen 2 cooler people to share my special day with. Happy Birthday, Little Rock & BW!! And oh yeah- ME!
April 26, 2010
Getting to Know Me
I've been tossing around the idea of starting my own blog for several months. I'd think about it and then get to thinking about something else. I figured it was something that I would start and then let fall to the wayside like other attempts to document my life. I tried to keep a journal back in the day and was pretty consistent for a few years, but then I'd lose interest or get lazy. I'm not sure which is more accurate. So I figure I'll give this a try and see if I can entertain others and document my life all in one.
So... what can I say about myself? I appreciate sarcasm and use it daily- big shocker! Did you even read the title of my blog?! I enjoy reading all kinds of books and watching movies. I talk in movie quotes on a regular basis and believe there is an appropriate movie quote for pretty much any and every situation in life (even to describe my blog).
I try to be a supportive and compassionate friend. My friends will tell you that I love them with all my heart and would do anything for them. But I lack patience. I'm working on it, but I find myself lacking in that department. I don't have sympathy for people who refuse to better their circumstances while complaining about all that is wrong in their life. I consider myself a liberal conservative when it comes to political matters, but I don't spend a lot of time reflecting on politics. I feel there are more important things to focus on like the cover story on the latest issue of People magazine, my next outing to Pancho's for a Mexican food fix and planning days off work.
I'm married to an awesome man I'll refer to as Hubby. Hubby is a computer guru with mad photography skills. I can hardly sync my iPod to my iTunes, but he can troubleshoot my PC issues while enjoying episodes of Family Guy as he edits photos on his Mac. He's well-rounded like that.
We have 2 fur children. Kira Kitty is 13 years old and loves to eat, sleep, eat and get high on catnip. We've had to reign her catnip habit in because we don't want our baby to be on a future episode of Intervention. Sophie the Pug is 10 years old and just sleeps and eats. She has a random burst of energy about once every 2 years. Then, it passes.
That about sums me up. I'll do my best to entertain and enlighten with future posts.
So... what can I say about myself? I appreciate sarcasm and use it daily- big shocker! Did you even read the title of my blog?! I enjoy reading all kinds of books and watching movies. I talk in movie quotes on a regular basis and believe there is an appropriate movie quote for pretty much any and every situation in life (even to describe my blog).
I try to be a supportive and compassionate friend. My friends will tell you that I love them with all my heart and would do anything for them. But I lack patience. I'm working on it, but I find myself lacking in that department. I don't have sympathy for people who refuse to better their circumstances while complaining about all that is wrong in their life. I consider myself a liberal conservative when it comes to political matters, but I don't spend a lot of time reflecting on politics. I feel there are more important things to focus on like the cover story on the latest issue of People magazine, my next outing to Pancho's for a Mexican food fix and planning days off work.
I'm married to an awesome man I'll refer to as Hubby. Hubby is a computer guru with mad photography skills. I can hardly sync my iPod to my iTunes, but he can troubleshoot my PC issues while enjoying episodes of Family Guy as he edits photos on his Mac. He's well-rounded like that.
We have 2 fur children. Kira Kitty is 13 years old and loves to eat, sleep, eat and get high on catnip. We've had to reign her catnip habit in because we don't want our baby to be on a future episode of Intervention. Sophie the Pug is 10 years old and just sleeps and eats. She has a random burst of energy about once every 2 years. Then, it passes.
That about sums me up. I'll do my best to entertain and enlighten with future posts.
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